New Thought about Domino Movement
The other day I was thinking about how the Domino Theory core principles are playing out with regards to the Topples I’ve been working on for the last year and a half. Put another way, why (or why not) have my dominos started other dominos in motion.
After thinking about this for a while, and reviewing the Core Principles, I’m realizing there’s something new to consider: Topples stall when dominos “teeter” and aren’t “encouraged” to tip. In some cases encouragement means a gentle reminder, other times it takes restating of the purpose of the topple, inspire them once again, explaining what to do next, and motivating them to keep the topple in motion. In a real domino topple it's not uncommon to see people assist the topple keep going when a domino doesn't fall.
This brings up an interesting point…
It takes courage to tip a domino (pass one on), and even more courage to say “hey, have you passed your domino yet.” No one likes to nag.
This got me thinking just how important it is for topplers.org to have some kind of “reminder system” to let you know you have a standing domino, and encourage you to keep the Topple in motion by passing it on. This takes the personal nag out of the equation.
We will definitely have this functionality built into the new website (as always if you want to help with topplers.org v2.0 let me know). For now, I will try to get a hack in place to make the current site do this. Obviously no one would be happy with a website that nags a lot, but I think one or two gentle reminders via email would be fine. Also, we could let the previous domino owner know that the next domino in the chain is teetering (and then they can decide if they want to encourage action.
Overall Toppling gets easier when there’s an underlying system like topplers.org to support it. When the new site launches I’m sure dominos will tip with more frequency and the Topple won’t “stall” as much.
But, Domino Theory isn’t all about the website. It’s more generally about how to take a dream/idea/hope and make it happen by inspiring, educating, and motivating people around you to help. And in turn, asking that they do the same through a simple act, thus creating an ever expanding group of people helping the dream/idea/hope come true.
When there’s not an “email reminder” to assist, and a domino teeters, you must find the courage to follow-up and ask again. Or, make sure you tip LOTS of dominos to increase the chances that some fall without follow-up. The problem with the “wider” approach is that this needs to be continued over and over. It’s one thing for the originator to set up a lot of dominos, but another thing to expect a domino later in the topple to tip lots of other dominos next (because they are rarely as inspired or motivated as the topple originator).
Next step for me: a gentle reminder to all the people who have dominos one down the chain from me. I will remind them of why they received the domino, what to do next, and motivate them to act. Automated or not, this is the next, because experience has taught me, often a domino needs a little assistance to tip over and keep the Topple in motion.



